Saturday, May 31, 2014

Practicing Awareness of Microaggressions

One example of microaggression I detected this week is from Dr. Sue.  A lady asked him where he was born.  Dr. Sue replied that he was born in Portland, Oregon.  The lady responded by saying “No, no, no, where were you born?”  Dr. Sue, with a confused look on his face replied that he was born in Portland, Oregon, almost doubting himself.  The lady persisted then asking what country was Dr. Sue born in of course his reply being that he was born in the United States.  The lady then left with a confused look on her face, in my assumptions, not believing Dr. Sue could possibly be born and raised in the United States.  The type of microaggresssion in this case is microinvalidation.  This lady had no idea she was engaged in such an interaction of microaggression as most wrongdoers do not.  The microaggression happened when the lady re-asked Dr. Sue the question of where he was born after he had told her several times.  In this situation I felt like the lady was being stereotypical.
 
         This week I have learned the importance of how to approach people in a cultural way.  Most people who engage in microaggressions are not even aware of doing so.  This week has helped me realize how stereotyping can be very disturbing for people on the other side of the words.  I am a person who believes everyone should be treated the same and stereotyping has never been a part of me.  From learning about microaggressions has helped me to see perspectives from both ends of the deal and to think more in-depth from both situations. 



Saturday, May 24, 2014

Perspectives of Diversity and Culture

The first person I asked their definition of culture and diversity is a teacher who works at the same facility as I do.  She is from Thailand and definitely has different cultural beliefs than myself.  She believes culture to be the existing appearance of a specific society’s established beliefs.  Basically peoples way of life and how they do things.  She explains diversity of knowing every person is distinctive, and identifying our individual dissimilarities.
The second person I asked a definition of culture and diversity is my Aunt who is also a teacher.  She believes culture is the features of a certain cluster of individuals, clarified through many things such as: Language, religion, habits, and etc.  Her definition of diversity is in a nutshell the inclusion of cultural and individual differences of others.
The third individual I asked to define culture and diversity was my good friend and old college professor.  He sees culture as a shared inheritance passed on from one generation to another and shared, composed of skills, beliefs, knowledge and products that are generally joint by tons of individuals and transferred to children.  His definition of diversity is the differences in racial and ethnic, socioeconomic, environmental, and educational backgrounds.  Diversity in his mind is basically the openness to differences among people, cultures and viewpoints.
From talking with my friends and relatives I was able to grasp a comparison of what I have learned in the course so far on culture and diversity.  The word culture refers to how particular groups of people live (Derman-Sparks & Edwards, 2010).  The idea of culture alone is commonly measured as many noticeable actions like the food people eat, music listened to, celebrations, holidays, dance, and even dress attire.  Each of the individuals I talked with basically defined culture in this term of thought.  Society is a structured group of people.  It involves individuals who hold a different and constant living style.  From what I have learned about diversity it is all about including other cultures and accepting the difference of other people.  Everyone is different in their own unique way.  “We must respect the dignity and preferences of each family and to make an effort to learn about its structure, culture, language, customs, and beliefs” (Gonzalez-Mena, 2008, pg. 12).
As far as the three people I talked to definition of culture and diversity nothing really changed of my thoughts and views because it is how I see the two as well.  Both definitions are so broad that many different things can be put into them that are correct.  Just looking at diversity, I believe it combines people from many circumstances that hold essential skills that simulate organizational competitiveness and growth within society.   

References
Gonzalez-Mena, J.  (2008).  Diversity in Early Care and Education (5th ed., pp. 8-13).  Boston,
            MA:  McGraw Hill.

Derman-Sparks, L., & Edwards O. J.  (2010).  Anti-Bias Education for young children and
            Ourselves.  Chapter 5, “Learning About Culture, Language, & Fairness” (p. 55-60).






Thursday, May 15, 2014

My Family Culture

If I had to choose 3 small items that represent my family culture it would start with grabbing my family picture book.  Before I was even born every family reunion, pictures would be snapped and added into the book, from funny and silly photos to generational pictures.  A second item I would bring would be my Ipad.  It has music, pictures, and tons of games I love.  This would definitely keep me entertained, especially being that I love music.  A third item I would choose is my old dusty Florida State Seminoles ball cap.  My Great-Grandmother gave it to me and I have always kept it around sitting on my desk in memory of her.  She use to keep me all the time and was such a special person in my life.

I am a person who sticks to myself a great bit so my mind wonders a lot.  From the present to the future and even the past have me thinking just how great life is and was even back in the good ole days.  These 3 items mean a lot to me and I have learned from my Great-Grandmother to always cherish what I have because everything is not promised.  Holding on to things gives us a chance to think back, for example, my hat.  I can remember this like it was yesterday.  I had just received my hat and my Great-Grandmother told me not to take it to school in which I did and got it taken up.  I had to wait a whole two weeks to get it back for being so hard headed.

If upon arrival, I were told that I could only keep one personal item and have to give up the other two, I would feel pretty upset because these items are mine and great memories of my life.  Having someone give an option of this magnitude is tough but it is life and things happen.  There is one thing for certain and that is they can retrieve the hard copy of items but can never take my memories away.