The Personal Side of Bias, Prejudice, and Oppression

   A good memory of an incident when bias or racism came into play was with my girlfriend.  She told me about a time when she was cheerleading back in high school and something that has never left her mind even until this day.  She explained it was only her and another girl the only African Americans on the squad, the rest of the girls were Caucasian.  After a cheerleading competition her team went out to eat at cracker barrel restaurant.  The restaurant was not all packed but she said they waited for about an hour before being seated with other big groups coming in around them.  No one thought anything of it so they waited patiently until finally being seated.  My girlfriend sat at the table with the other African American girl and two other Caucasian girls from the squad.  Everyone was waited except my girlfriend's table.  Again no one thought anything of it until one of the Caucasian girls from my girlfriend's table noticed everyone getting their food and their table has not even been seen.  New customers were coming in getting their order taken care of and it was getting ridiculous.  The girl who took notice went and told their coach who confronted the manager.  My girlfriend said she broke down in tears so frustrated at what was happening because she said she never encountered anything like this before.  The manager told them that he apologize and will take care of the waitress.
  This incident diminished equity by the waitress refusing to serve a table because of the color of two girl's skin.  Everyone should be treated the same no matter their race and it was just not right to pass on their table because of them being African American.  Every time I think of this incident I get a disgust feeling because I feel those days of being racist, prejudice and even bias should have never even began.  It is not right to treat people any kind of way.  I have a zero-tolerance of this kind of behavior and I am all for teaching our young generation the right ways of going about our society.  In order to change this incident into an opportunity for greater equity the world itself needs to be constructed upon.  It starts by properly educating the early childhood community to ensure they understand how to treat people with respect and value each other's culture and differences.